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Big Tits Film. It requires a different sort of orientation to devote attention to the possibilities of fingers and hands. In the middle of talking about using her vibrator on her clit to help alleviate contractions just like masturbation Perineal massage pregnancy fisting period crampsshe even has time to comment on underrepresented pregnant women:. There was a traffic jam of births at the city hospitals the week I had my daughter. It was about nine months after the big earthquake hit San Francisco, and apparently staying home had been a fertile pastime during that otherwise sobering period.

The other women who had children the day and night I was in the hospital did not appear to have husbands at their sides. It was easy for me to imagine their stories: Bright continues on to address sex after pregnancy, breastfeeding, the sexual side of lactation, sexual fantasies, etc.

Go read the whole thing here. Jasmine has been writing some Perineal massage pregnancy fisting amazing posts recently. Your homework assignment? Go check her out. You are commenting using your WordPress. Perineal massage pregnancy fisting are commenting using your Google account. I don't think that either the birthing woman or the midwife should take too much credit for birthing over an intact perineum, or too much blame for a tear.

There's just too many variables, and it's almost impossible to tease out what's responsible for either tearing or not tearing in any individual case. The midwife who trained me had only done about 13 episiotomies in about births, but I remember Perineal massage pregnancy fisting telling the story of one woman who she Perineal massage pregnancy fisting who had a really read article perineum that just wouldn't stretch at all, and she ended up doing an episiotomy.

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sexual diagrams Watch Video Seachhelbo Xxx. Use a good olive oil or coconut oil. Bigger toys are always fun too. I would be careful with fisting only because of the germ factor. If yours or your partners hands aren't completely clean and you tear or scratch a tiny bit, you could end up with a nasty infection. Remember your immune system isn't up to par at the moment. I tore badly with my first. Second baby was almost a pound bigger with no tearing. I think the massaging and toys really helped. Thank for the post!!!! I wasn't sure if there was anything that cud be done about tearing but think I'll give massaging and toys a try!!! I tore with my first and we did some perineal massage for my second, but still tore. My dr said I have a short perineum so it's likely there isn't any way to avoid tearing. Since my babies are only going to be 15mo apart, I've kind of resigned myself to tearing again. Both my babies have come really fast too. I ended up with an episiotomy with DS my mw very rarely does them, I'd been pushing for 2. So, I think I'm going to start a few weeks before my due date, as DS came almost two weeks early. I soooo wish I'd done it last time. Queen of Cups is offline. I'd vote for good nutrition and a controlled delivery of the head. Barring unusual circumstances. Having the mom able to have her hands on the perineum as the baby is crowning can also help. The worst tears I've seen have actually been not with the huge heads, but with smaller babies, when the mom has pushed really hard and the baby has just come rocketing out! I think if prenatal perineal "massage" floats yer boat, that's just fine, but having my husband stretch my perineum to the point where he can get a hand in isn't how I really want to spend my time!! Basically it's fisting, to be totally frank. The perineum will strech just fine with the baby at the time of birth in most cases, and I'd frankly rather have a small tear than traumatize and torture myself for weeks in advance of the birth! Kavita is offline. I thought I responded to this? Anyhow, look at positioning- more tears seem to happen in the lithotomy position than any other. Personally, I'd feel like an extra in a specialist adult film using one of those they look like something Ann Summers would sell but each to their own Helen mum to five and mistress of mess and mayhem, making merry and mischief til the sun goes down. Apparently he remembers more that I do! I too had midwives, and of course, they are the far better choice if you have the choice. My midwife offered me the stretch and sweep because I was enormous and 2 days past due, but when she checked me, my baby was still not "dropped" so she declined saying it is dangerous to induce labour if the baby is not ready. Given the way you describe it, I'm glad it didn't happen!! In the end I ended up having a C-section as well, so it would have been for nothing. But even though it wasn't my midwife doing the c-section, I am so glad she was there to communicate between me and doctor and to come to the hospital and my home for the after care visits and help with breastfeeding. Many people think that midwives are completely detached from western medicine and that scares them away. I would say that is not true at all, they work closely with the people at the hospital because like supermommi some choose to birth there, and like me, some need c-sections and they do not frown on you if you want pain medication. In fact my midwife told me that for some labours they suggest it. Its not that "medicine is bad! Yay midwives! UHHH yeeaaaa!!! Perineal massage on yourself anytime ast 7 months is basically impossible. My bottle of olive oil was also unopened until this week, when I cooked some Kale and Zucchini. All this Anonymity is getting confusing ; I'm pretty sure I've got the first and second Anonymous pegged, as well as the third, but the fourth reamins a mystery Thanks for sharing, though, ladies! I know you love it when I call you materialistic: P When I say it, it's a compliment! That's the truth. Third Anonymous: If you are who I think you are, you are a horse-girl, like me, and my midwife said she's found riders to have especially tough perineums - whihc is why I needed to be cut - twice: S Lucky you! That's impressive! Fourth Anonymous: I don't know why I find your olive oil reference so funny - but I do! Thank you I found it funny also. I posted all my comments in one big heap on may 3rd, so you don't have to wonder! My engorged clitoris was different under my fingers; too sensitive to touch my usual way. What other way was there? Unless you and your lover make the transition to new ways of getting excited and reaching orgasm, you are going to be very depressed about sex and start avoiding it all together. Sex is also a crucial way to prepare for childbirth. Start with the premise that birth is the biggest sex act you will ever take part in, and everything will flow from that. If you are smart and take childbirth preparation classes, you may even get a teacher who knows something about the sexual side of birth. My teacher was subtle. How could rubbing something the size of a birthday candle help me in labor? The flyer which opened, of course, with the obligatory spiel: His whole hand! I called up one of my friends who has the breadth of experience as both a mother of two and a retired porn star. Perineal massage is not discussed in every hospital or prenatal setting. Most couples and their care providers are steeped in the dominance of penis-vagina intercourse..

Perineal massage pregnancy fisting Posted by MamaFern my midwife gave me the handout on perenial massage and i did it a few times when i was pregnant with elwynn but didnt really feel the need. Originally Posted by Queen of Cups So if you have good-to-excellent nutrition throughout your pregnancy and don't stretch, you're just doomed? I tore with my first and we did some perineal massage for my second, but still tore. My dr said I have a short perineum so it's likely there isn't any way to avoid tearing.

Since my babies are only going Perineal massage pregnancy fisting be 15mo apart, I've kind of resigned myself to tearing again.

Natasah Xxx Watch Video In Indiaxxxhd. Both my babies have come really fast too. I think I had two pushes with my last and maybe 3 with my first. Thanks for sharing. Does your doctor do anything while in labor? I had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, she mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird! We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. I hardly tore, just one spot 2nd degree but my daughters head was 95th percentile. Also look into different birthing positions, on your back is the worst and most unnatural way, it puts all the pressure on the perineum. I had close to 40 stitches with my first, and she weighed 6lbs And my second I needed one stitch and he weighed 8lbs. I really think a lot also depends on how you push and how long you're in labor for! First was a 64 hour labor that was almost a csection, and I pushed for an hour and a half. You'll be so much more comfortable this time around that I think that will help as well: Watched a midwife video who said birthing chairs, especially for FTM, are the worst for tearing. Welcome to Mothering! Facebook Google Remember. Old , Hi, I had to share something that was brought up on another site. There's something called an Epi-No Delphine Plus that is used for training the perineum and pelvic floor muscles for childbirth. Basically it's a sillicone balloon that you pump up while it's inside your vagina, and it gradually stretches your perineum so that when it comes time for baby, there's a lesser chance of tearing. You use it in the three weeks prior to your due date. What do you think of it? That's very interesting. I'm not sure it's something I would use, but it's a much better idea than the gourd! We used massage the first time around and although dd came barrelling out in about 5 minutes and weighed 8 lbs 3 oz, I only tore minimally. Queen of Cups. I ended up with an episiotomy with DS my mw very rarely does them, I'd been pushing for 2. So, I think I'm going to start a few weeks before my due date, as DS came almost two weeks early. I soooo wish I'd done it last time. Queen of Cups is offline. If you have a doctor for your prenatal care, they make every effort to attend your birth, but very often it just doesn't happen. It's the nurses at the hospital who care for you throughout your labour - right up until the push! Dont' get me wrong: But I liked knowing someone I knew, and who was familiar with my birthing plan, was going to be there with me. Here's another thing about midwives. I'm not sure if this will be a selling point, though They fist you. Exactly how you're thinking. It's called a "stretch and sweep", but that doesn't really convey it's true nature. Once you are past 36 weeks, they offer you this service, which is supposed to stimulate your cervix, and help prepare it and encourage labour to begin naturally. I have mentioned the desperation of the very-pregnant woman to get that baby out But it is anything but. Basically, the midwife shoves their fist up there and "massages" your cervix - except I'd never had a massage that made me bleed before. And I'd never had a massage that made me grip the table, sweat, and cry before. But now I've had two! And neither worked! However, I have friends who have endured them, as well, and who went into labour that night. If it works, it's worth it. If it doesn't Of your vag. So this is important! Needless to say, my "partner" did not do this, and I couldn't bring myself to inflict that kind of pain on my nether regions - if it was even possible - sounds to me like self perineal massage at 36 weeks pregnant might involve some contortionistic abilities. I required TWO episiotomies out the back and I tore up the front! Posted by Accidental Supermommi at Anonymous 2 May at Anonymous 3 May at Accidental Supermommi 3 May at Most couples and their care providers are steeped in the dominance of penis-vagina intercourse. It requires a different sort of orientation to devote attention to the possibilities of fingers and hands. In the middle of talking about using her vibrator on her clit to help alleviate contractions just like masturbation helps period cramps , she even has time to comment on underrepresented pregnant women:. There was a traffic jam of births at the city hospitals the week I had my daughter. It was about nine months after the big earthquake hit San Francisco, and apparently staying home had been a fertile pastime during that otherwise sobering period. The other women who had children the day and night I was in the hospital did not appear to have husbands at their sides. It was easy for me to imagine their stories: Bright continues on to address sex after pregnancy, breastfeeding, the sexual side of lactation, sexual fantasies, etc. Go read the whole thing here. Jasmine has been writing some pretty amazing posts recently. Your homework assignment? Go check her out. You are commenting using your WordPress..

Both my babies have come really fast too. I think I had two pushes with my last and maybe 3 with my first. Thanks for sharing. Does your doctor do anything while in labor? Perineal massage pregnancy fisting had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, Perineal massage pregnancy fisting mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird!

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We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. I hardly tore, just one spot 2nd degree but my daughters head was 95th percentile.

Aruba porno Watch Video Sunnyxx Videos. I think I had two pushes with my last and maybe 3 with my first. Thanks for sharing. Does your doctor do anything while in labor? I had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, she mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird! We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. I hardly tore, just one spot 2nd degree but my daughters head was 95th percentile. Also look into different birthing positions, on your back is the worst and most unnatural way, it puts all the pressure on the perineum. I had close to 40 stitches with my first, and she weighed 6lbs And my second I needed one stitch and he weighed 8lbs. I really think a lot also depends on how you push and how long you're in labor for! First was a 64 hour labor that was almost a csection, and I pushed for an hour and a half. You'll be so much more comfortable this time around that I think that will help as well: Watched a midwife video who said birthing chairs, especially for FTM, are the worst for tearing. My midwife also stretched me out, mostly kind of pulling downward while I was pushing. So if you have good-to-excellent nutrition throughout your pregnancy and don't stretch, you're just doomed? I meant that last pregnancy I did have excellent nutrition - we eat lots of fresh fruits and veggies, lean meats, salmon, cook with olive oil I gained 36 lbs total, gradually over the entire pregnancy and had hardly any stretch marks, so you would think that my skin is plenty elastic. And during delivery I didn't stretch, even with all the help the midwife could give before finally resorting to a episiotomy. I don't think nutrition is the only factor. Vitamin E, C, biflavanoids, etc. There are no guarantees in birth, and that applies to the perineum too. Sometimes a birth where everything goes or is done "wrong" in terms of the perineum results in an intact perineum, and sometimes the woman and the midwife can do everything "right" and still have tearing or the need for an episiotomy. I don't think that either the birthing woman or the midwife should take too much credit for birthing over an intact perineum, or too much blame for a tear. There's just too many variables, and it's almost impossible to tease out what's responsible for either tearing or not tearing in any individual case. The midwife who trained me had only done about 13 episiotomies in about births, but I remember her telling the story of one woman who she attended who had a really tough perineum that just wouldn't stretch at all, and she ended up doing an episiotomy. Later, after the birth, the midwife was discussing this with the woman sort of trying to find out what was up with the perineum situation and the woman told her that she had been a professional bull-rider!! Uh, yeah, THAT would toughen up your perineum right quick! BB code is On. Smilies are On. Trackbacks are On. A third midwife attended my birth as an assistant, so I still had totally dedicated care. If you have a doctor for your prenatal care, they make every effort to attend your birth, but very often it just doesn't happen. It's the nurses at the hospital who care for you throughout your labour - right up until the push! Dont' get me wrong: But I liked knowing someone I knew, and who was familiar with my birthing plan, was going to be there with me. Here's another thing about midwives. I'm not sure if this will be a selling point, though They fist you. Exactly how you're thinking. It's called a "stretch and sweep", but that doesn't really convey it's true nature. Once you are past 36 weeks, they offer you this service, which is supposed to stimulate your cervix, and help prepare it and encourage labour to begin naturally. I have mentioned the desperation of the very-pregnant woman to get that baby out But it is anything but. Basically, the midwife shoves their fist up there and "massages" your cervix - except I'd never had a massage that made me bleed before. And I'd never had a massage that made me grip the table, sweat, and cry before. But now I've had two! And neither worked! However, I have friends who have endured them, as well, and who went into labour that night. If it works, it's worth it. If it doesn't Of your vag. So this is important! Needless to say, my "partner" did not do this, and I couldn't bring myself to inflict that kind of pain on my nether regions - if it was even possible - sounds to me like self perineal massage at 36 weeks pregnant might involve some contortionistic abilities. I required TWO episiotomies out the back and I tore up the front! Posted by Accidental Supermommi at Anonymous 2 May at Anonymous 3 May at You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google account. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email. Here, she talks about the sexual side of the bodily changes that accompany pregnancy: Meanwhile, my clit started to grow. In the middle of talking about using her vibrator on her clit to help alleviate contractions just like masturbation helps period cramps , she even has time to comment on underrepresented pregnant women: Share this: Email Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading.

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It's the nurses at the hospital who care for link throughout your labour - right up until the push! Dont' get me wrong: But I liked knowing someone I knew, and who was familiar with my Perineal massage pregnancy fisting plan, was going to be there with me.

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So if you have good-to-excellent nutrition throughout your pregnancy and don't stretch, you're just doomed? I meant that last pregnancy I did have excellent nutrition - we eat lots of fresh fruits and veggies, lean meats, salmon, cook with olive oil I gained 36 lbs total, gradually over the entire pregnancy and had hardly any stretch marks, so you would think that my skin is plenty elastic. And during delivery I didn't stretch, even with all the help the midwife could give before finally resorting to a episiotomy. I don't think nutrition is the only factor. Vitamin E, C, biflavanoids, etc. There are no guarantees in birth, and that applies to the perineum too. Sometimes a birth where everything goes or is done "wrong" in terms of the perineum results in an intact perineum, and sometimes the woman and the midwife can do everything "right" and still have tearing or the need for an episiotomy. I don't think that either the birthing woman or the midwife should take too much credit for birthing over an intact perineum, or too much blame for a tear. There's just too many variables, and it's almost impossible to tease out what's responsible for either tearing or not tearing in any individual case. The midwife who trained me had only done about 13 episiotomies in about births, but I remember her telling the story of one woman who she attended who had a really tough perineum that just wouldn't stretch at all, and she ended up doing an episiotomy. You alternate between your primary and secondary midwife each visit that you have, so that you are equally familiar with both. As it happened, my primary midwife had her own baby early, and wasn't there for my birth, but my secondary was, and she was great. A third midwife attended my birth as an assistant, so I still had totally dedicated care. If you have a doctor for your prenatal care, they make every effort to attend your birth, but very often it just doesn't happen. It's the nurses at the hospital who care for you throughout your labour - right up until the push! Dont' get me wrong: But I liked knowing someone I knew, and who was familiar with my birthing plan, was going to be there with me. Here's another thing about midwives. I'm not sure if this will be a selling point, though They fist you. Exactly how you're thinking. It's called a "stretch and sweep", but that doesn't really convey it's true nature. Once you are past 36 weeks, they offer you this service, which is supposed to stimulate your cervix, and help prepare it and encourage labour to begin naturally. I have mentioned the desperation of the very-pregnant woman to get that baby out But it is anything but. Basically, the midwife shoves their fist up there and "massages" your cervix - except I'd never had a massage that made me bleed before. And I'd never had a massage that made me grip the table, sweat, and cry before. But now I've had two! And neither worked! However, I have friends who have endured them, as well, and who went into labour that night. If it works, it's worth it. If it doesn't Of your vag. So this is important! Needless to say, my "partner" did not do this, and I couldn't bring myself to inflict that kind of pain on my nether regions - if it was even possible - sounds to me like self perineal massage at 36 weeks pregnant might involve some contortionistic abilities. I required TWO episiotomies out the back and I tore up the front! Posted by Accidental Supermommi at You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google account. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email. Here, she talks about the sexual side of the bodily changes that accompany pregnancy: Meanwhile, my clit started to grow. In the middle of talking about using her vibrator on her clit to help alleviate contractions just like masturbation helps period cramps , she even has time to comment on underrepresented pregnant women: Share this: Email Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading.

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The midwife who trained me had only done about 13 episiotomies in about births, but I remember her telling the story of one woman who she attended who had a really tough perineum that just wouldn't stretch at all, and she ended up doing an episiotomy. Later, after the birth, the midwife was discussing this with the woman sort of trying to find out what was up with the perineum situation and the woman told her that she had been a professional bull-rider!! Uh, yeah, THAT would toughen up your perineum right quick! BB code is On. Smilies are On. Trackbacks are On. Pingbacks are On. Refbacks are Off. This blog is funniest totally biased opinion if read from earliest to most recent post - so start at the bottom! And please "follow" if you like it! Monday, 2 May Fisting. And Midwives. And Indian Rug Burns. One of the first considerations a pregnant woman has to give is to whether she'd prefer the care of her family doctor, an obstetrician, or a midwife. My only baby-having experience had been with horses, which sounds strange, but I had witnessed and assisted several equine births and conceptions, but that is anther story, and totally unrelated , and sort of figured, if they can do it, so can I - so the natural approach appealed to me, and I was am also a devotee of homeopathy and naturopathy But a very materialistic friend of mine teehee - we'll see if she reads my blog now - she'll know I'm talking about her: Like me, she had a bad fall while pregnant, and her midwife had gone to meet her at Emergency and stayed with her while she waited, because she was frightened and upset. That sounded above and beyond, and I knew I wouldn't get that kind of care from my GP not that she wouldn't want to! I just know her schedule and commitment to other patients would never allow it. If you do choose a midwife, the first thing you have to do is call to see if they are accepting patients with your due date. They only take on a certain number at that time, because they assign you a primary midwife and a secondary midwife, so that they can guarantee you that one of them will be at your birth. Luckily, Burlington and Area Midwives was able to take me. I went for a consultation, and was quickly won over by them. I will admit, the fact that the midwife who was to be my primary was young, cute, and "normal" looking helped a lot! But so did learning that midwifery services were covered for Canadians, that I didn't have to have a home birth that was never a consideration for me - hospital all the way! They see you at the same frequency as a doctor would, and send you for the same tests and ultrasounds. But they also do a home visit, to familiarize themselves with your home, should you choose a home birth, should you have one by accident, and for after-care - because they do your post-natal care in your home after you have the baby - a definite perk! You alternate between your primary and secondary midwife each visit that you have, so that you are equally familiar with both. As it happened, my primary midwife had her own baby early, and wasn't there for my birth, but my secondary was, and she was great. A third midwife attended my birth as an assistant, so I still had totally dedicated care. If you have a doctor for your prenatal care, they make every effort to attend your birth, but very often it just doesn't happen. It's the nurses at the hospital who care for you throughout your labour - right up until the push! Dont' get me wrong: But I liked knowing someone I knew, and who was familiar with my birthing plan, was going to be there with me. Here's another thing about midwives. I think the massaging and toys really helped. Thank for the post!!!! I wasn't sure if there was anything that cud be done about tearing but think I'll give massaging and toys a try!!! I tore with my first and we did some perineal massage for my second, but still tore. My dr said I have a short perineum so it's likely there isn't any way to avoid tearing. Since my babies are only going to be 15mo apart, I've kind of resigned myself to tearing again. Both my babies have come really fast too. I think I had two pushes with my last and maybe 3 with my first. Thanks for sharing. Does your doctor do anything while in labor? I had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, she mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird! We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. I hardly tore, just one spot 2nd degree but my daughters head was 95th percentile. Also look into different birthing positions, on your back is the worst and most unnatural way, it puts all the pressure on the perineum. Start with the premise that birth is the biggest sex act you will ever take part in, and everything will flow from that. If you are smart and take childbirth preparation classes, you may even get a teacher who knows something about the sexual side of birth. My teacher was subtle. How could rubbing something the size of a birthday candle help me in labor? The flyer which opened, of course, with the obligatory spiel: His whole hand! I called up one of my friends who has the breadth of experience as both a mother of two and a retired porn star. Perineal massage is not discussed in every hospital or prenatal setting. Most couples and their care providers are steeped in the dominance of penis-vagina intercourse. It requires a different sort of orientation to devote attention to the possibilities of fingers and hands. In the middle of talking about using her vibrator on her clit to help alleviate contractions just like masturbation helps period cramps , she even has time to comment on underrepresented pregnant women:. There was a traffic jam of births at the city hospitals the week I had my daughter. It was about nine months after the big earthquake hit San Francisco, and apparently staying home had been a fertile pastime during that otherwise sobering period..

Sorry if this Perineal massage pregnancy fisting makes you uncomfortable in any way - but it's all part of the realness of birthing and sexuality. Keep an open mind for your body and your baby's arrival: I am a firm believer in perineum massage.

I think the key to it is more moisturizing the area than stretching it. Use a good olive oil Perineal massage pregnancy fisting coconut oil. Bigger toys are always fun too. I would be careful with fisting only because of the germ factor. If yours or your partners hands aren't completely clean and you tear or scratch a tiny bit, you could end up with a nasty infection.

Remember your immune system isn't up to par at the moment. I tore badly with my first. Second baby was almost a pound bigger with no tearing. I think the massaging and toys really helped.

Sexy Pinky Watch Video Sex cam. The flyer which opened, of course, with the obligatory spiel: His whole hand! I called up one of my friends who has the breadth of experience as both a mother of two and a retired porn star. Perineal massage is not discussed in every hospital or prenatal setting. Most couples and their care providers are steeped in the dominance of penis-vagina intercourse. It requires a different sort of orientation to devote attention to the possibilities of fingers and hands. In the middle of talking about using her vibrator on her clit to help alleviate contractions just like masturbation helps period cramps , she even has time to comment on underrepresented pregnant women:. There was a traffic jam of births at the city hospitals the week I had my daughter. It was about nine months after the big earthquake hit San Francisco, and apparently staying home had been a fertile pastime during that otherwise sobering period. The other women who had children the day and night I was in the hospital did not appear to have husbands at their sides. It was easy for me to imagine their stories: Bright continues on to address sex after pregnancy, breastfeeding, the sexual side of lactation, sexual fantasies, etc. Go read the whole thing here. Monday, 2 May Fisting. And Midwives. And Indian Rug Burns. One of the first considerations a pregnant woman has to give is to whether she'd prefer the care of her family doctor, an obstetrician, or a midwife. My only baby-having experience had been with horses, which sounds strange, but I had witnessed and assisted several equine births and conceptions, but that is anther story, and totally unrelated , and sort of figured, if they can do it, so can I - so the natural approach appealed to me, and I was am also a devotee of homeopathy and naturopathy But a very materialistic friend of mine teehee - we'll see if she reads my blog now - she'll know I'm talking about her: Like me, she had a bad fall while pregnant, and her midwife had gone to meet her at Emergency and stayed with her while she waited, because she was frightened and upset. That sounded above and beyond, and I knew I wouldn't get that kind of care from my GP not that she wouldn't want to! I just know her schedule and commitment to other patients would never allow it. If you do choose a midwife, the first thing you have to do is call to see if they are accepting patients with your due date. They only take on a certain number at that time, because they assign you a primary midwife and a secondary midwife, so that they can guarantee you that one of them will be at your birth. Luckily, Burlington and Area Midwives was able to take me. I went for a consultation, and was quickly won over by them. I will admit, the fact that the midwife who was to be my primary was young, cute, and "normal" looking helped a lot! But so did learning that midwifery services were covered for Canadians, that I didn't have to have a home birth that was never a consideration for me - hospital all the way! They see you at the same frequency as a doctor would, and send you for the same tests and ultrasounds. But they also do a home visit, to familiarize themselves with your home, should you choose a home birth, should you have one by accident, and for after-care - because they do your post-natal care in your home after you have the baby - a definite perk! You alternate between your primary and secondary midwife each visit that you have, so that you are equally familiar with both. As it happened, my primary midwife had her own baby early, and wasn't there for my birth, but my secondary was, and she was great. A third midwife attended my birth as an assistant, so I still had totally dedicated care. If you have a doctor for your prenatal care, they make every effort to attend your birth, but very often it just doesn't happen. It's the nurses at the hospital who care for you throughout your labour - right up until the push! Dont' get me wrong: But I liked knowing someone I knew, and who was familiar with my birthing plan, was going to be there with me. Here's another thing about midwives. I'm not sure if this will be a selling point, though They fist you. MamaFern is offline. So what is it about "good nutrition" that helps prevent tears? For example, if you have good nutrition, does that mean your body gets enough, say, vitamin E so that your skin is its most elastic? I know that most of us strive to eat well, but if I knew exactly which aspects of eating well were going to help the most, I could tailor my diet a bit better. And, forgive me for asking, but what are skid marks? I'm assuming we're not talking the middle-school-favorite poo-in-the-pants variety? HoneyTree is offline. So if you have good-to-excellent nutrition throughout your pregnancy and don't stretch, you're just doomed? I meant that last pregnancy I did have excellent nutrition - we eat lots of fresh fruits and veggies, lean meats, salmon, cook with olive oil I gained 36 lbs total, gradually over the entire pregnancy and had hardly any stretch marks, so you would think that my skin is plenty elastic. And during delivery I didn't stretch, even with all the help the midwife could give before finally resorting to a episiotomy. I don't think nutrition is the only factor. Vitamin E, C, biflavanoids, etc. There are no guarantees in birth, and that applies to the perineum too. Sometimes a birth where everything goes or is done "wrong" in terms of the perineum results in an intact perineum, and sometimes the woman and the midwife can do everything "right" and still have tearing or the need for an episiotomy. I don't think that either the birthing woman or the midwife should take too much credit for birthing over an intact perineum, or too much blame for a tear. Both my babies have come really fast too. I think I had two pushes with my last and maybe 3 with my first. Thanks for sharing. Does your doctor do anything while in labor? I had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, she mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird! We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. I hardly tore, just one spot 2nd degree but my daughters head was 95th percentile. Also look into different birthing positions, on your back is the worst and most unnatural way, it puts all the pressure on the perineum. I had close to 40 stitches with my first, and she weighed 6lbs And my second I needed one stitch and he weighed 8lbs. I really think a lot also depends on how you push and how long you're in labor for! First was a 64 hour labor that was almost a csection, and I pushed for an hour and a half. You'll be so much more comfortable this time around that I think that will help as well: Watched a midwife video who said birthing chairs, especially for FTM, are the worst for tearing..

Thank for the post!!!! I wasn't sure if there was anything that cud be done about tearing but think I'll give massaging and toys a try!!!

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Perineal massage pregnancy fisting tore with my first and we did some perineal massage for my second, but still tore. My dr said I have a short perineum so it's likely there isn't any way to avoid tearing.

Since my babies are only going to be 15mo apart, I've kind of resigned myself to tearing again.

Redheal Sex Watch Video Matures sex. And, forgive me for asking, but what are skid marks? I'm assuming we're not talking the middle-school-favorite poo-in-the-pants variety? HoneyTree is offline. So if you have good-to-excellent nutrition throughout your pregnancy and don't stretch, you're just doomed? I meant that last pregnancy I did have excellent nutrition - we eat lots of fresh fruits and veggies, lean meats, salmon, cook with olive oil I gained 36 lbs total, gradually over the entire pregnancy and had hardly any stretch marks, so you would think that my skin is plenty elastic. And during delivery I didn't stretch, even with all the help the midwife could give before finally resorting to a episiotomy. I don't think nutrition is the only factor. Vitamin E, C, biflavanoids, etc. There are no guarantees in birth, and that applies to the perineum too. Sometimes a birth where everything goes or is done "wrong" in terms of the perineum results in an intact perineum, and sometimes the woman and the midwife can do everything "right" and still have tearing or the need for an episiotomy. I don't think that either the birthing woman or the midwife should take too much credit for birthing over an intact perineum, or too much blame for a tear. There's just too many variables, and it's almost impossible to tease out what's responsible for either tearing or not tearing in any individual case. The midwife who trained me had only done about 13 episiotomies in about births, but I remember her telling the story of one woman who she attended who had a really tough perineum that just wouldn't stretch at all, and she ended up doing an episiotomy. Later, after the birth, the midwife was discussing this with the woman sort of trying to find out what was up with the perineum situation and the woman told her that she had been a professional bull-rider!! Uh, yeah, THAT would toughen up your perineum right quick! You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google account. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email. Here, she talks about the sexual side of the bodily changes that accompany pregnancy: Meanwhile, my clit started to grow. In the middle of talking about using her vibrator on her clit to help alleviate contractions just like masturbation helps period cramps , she even has time to comment on underrepresented pregnant women: Share this: Email Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading As it happened, my primary midwife had her own baby early, and wasn't there for my birth, but my secondary was, and she was great. A third midwife attended my birth as an assistant, so I still had totally dedicated care. If you have a doctor for your prenatal care, they make every effort to attend your birth, but very often it just doesn't happen. It's the nurses at the hospital who care for you throughout your labour - right up until the push! Dont' get me wrong: But I liked knowing someone I knew, and who was familiar with my birthing plan, was going to be there with me. Here's another thing about midwives. I'm not sure if this will be a selling point, though They fist you. Exactly how you're thinking. It's called a "stretch and sweep", but that doesn't really convey it's true nature. Once you are past 36 weeks, they offer you this service, which is supposed to stimulate your cervix, and help prepare it and encourage labour to begin naturally. I have mentioned the desperation of the very-pregnant woman to get that baby out But it is anything but. Basically, the midwife shoves their fist up there and "massages" your cervix - except I'd never had a massage that made me bleed before. And I'd never had a massage that made me grip the table, sweat, and cry before. But now I've had two! And neither worked! However, I have friends who have endured them, as well, and who went into labour that night. If it works, it's worth it. If it doesn't Of your vag. So this is important! Needless to say, my "partner" did not do this, and I couldn't bring myself to inflict that kind of pain on my nether regions - if it was even possible - sounds to me like self perineal massage at 36 weeks pregnant might involve some contortionistic abilities. I required TWO episiotomies out the back and I tore up the front! Posted by Accidental Supermommi at Anonymous 2 May at I had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, she mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird! We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. I hardly tore, just one spot 2nd degree but my daughters head was 95th percentile. Also look into different birthing positions, on your back is the worst and most unnatural way, it puts all the pressure on the perineum. I had close to 40 stitches with my first, and she weighed 6lbs And my second I needed one stitch and he weighed 8lbs. I really think a lot also depends on how you push and how long you're in labor for! First was a 64 hour labor that was almost a csection, and I pushed for an hour and a half. You'll be so much more comfortable this time around that I think that will help as well: Watched a midwife video who said birthing chairs, especially for FTM, are the worst for tearing. My midwife also stretched me out, mostly kind of pulling downward while I was pushing. I think it helped a lot! Definitely ask if she can do that for you. I only needed 2 small stitches, but she said the 'tears' were more just like chafing..

Both my babies have come really fast too. I think I had two pushes with my last and maybe 3 with my first.

Thanks for sharing. Does Perineal massage pregnancy fisting doctor do anything while in labor? Click here had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, she mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird!

We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. I hardly tore, just one Perineal massage pregnancy fisting 2nd degree but my daughters head was 95th percentile. Also look into different birthing positions, on your back is the worst and most unnatural way, it puts all the pressure on the perineum.

Sex sittes Watch Video Boudi Video5. I tore badly with my first. Second baby was almost a pound bigger with no tearing. I think the massaging and toys really helped. Thank for the post!!!! I wasn't sure if there was anything that cud be done about tearing but think I'll give massaging and toys a try!!! I tore with my first and we did some perineal massage for my second, but still tore. My dr said I have a short perineum so it's likely there isn't any way to avoid tearing. Since my babies are only going to be 15mo apart, I've kind of resigned myself to tearing again. Both my babies have come really fast too. I think I had two pushes with my last and maybe 3 with my first. Thanks for sharing. Does your doctor do anything while in labor? I had an epidural so I couldn't feel my V, but I'm pretty sure my doctor was stretching me out very well while I was pushing before my daughter was crowning, she mentioned something about helping me and just the way her arm was moving lol sorry it's so weird! We didn't do anything specific prior to, but we did keep sexually active. Vitamin E, C, biflavanoids, etc. There are no guarantees in birth, and that applies to the perineum too. Sometimes a birth where everything goes or is done "wrong" in terms of the perineum results in an intact perineum, and sometimes the woman and the midwife can do everything "right" and still have tearing or the need for an episiotomy. I don't think that either the birthing woman or the midwife should take too much credit for birthing over an intact perineum, or too much blame for a tear. There's just too many variables, and it's almost impossible to tease out what's responsible for either tearing or not tearing in any individual case. The midwife who trained me had only done about 13 episiotomies in about births, but I remember her telling the story of one woman who she attended who had a really tough perineum that just wouldn't stretch at all, and she ended up doing an episiotomy. Later, after the birth, the midwife was discussing this with the woman sort of trying to find out what was up with the perineum situation and the woman told her that she had been a professional bull-rider!! Uh, yeah, THAT would toughen up your perineum right quick! BB code is On. Smilies are On. Trackbacks are On. Pingbacks are On. Refbacks are Off. Forum Rules. For the best viewing experience please update your browser to Google Chrome. Privacy Policy. P When I say it, it's a compliment! That's the truth. Third Anonymous: If you are who I think you are, you are a horse-girl, like me, and my midwife said she's found riders to have especially tough perineums - whihc is why I needed to be cut - twice: S Lucky you! That's impressive! 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I had close to 40 stitches with my first, and she Perineal massage pregnancy fisting 6lbs And my second I needed one stitch and he weighed 8lbs. I really think a lot also depends on how you push and how long you're in labor for! First was a 64 hour labor that was almost a csection, and I pushed for an hour and a half. You'll be so much more comfortable this time around that I think that click help as well: Watched Perineal massage pregnancy fisting midwife video who said birthing chairs, especially for FTM, are the worst for tearing.

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